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Post by Herr R on Sat Dec 27, 2014 4:44 pm

So I basically decided to go on an adventure last night and drove nearly 500 miles round trip, just to meet some people from a FB group I belong to. Including the girl that is/was interested in hooking up with me.

The Good: I went in with no expectations whatsoever beyond meeting these people and having a drink or two. Oh yeah. I can finally say that I made an impulsive all night road trip.

The Awkward: Since the group was there and have already known each other for several hours before I got there, it felt awkward coming up to them and introducing myself to them. Afterwards, I felt kinda more awkward trying to get myself into conversations with them. I basically felt like a third wheel basically.

The "I-should-of-have-felt-bad-but-didn't-yet-it-will-come-back-to-haunt-me": I wanted to talk with the aforementioned girl. But lately, thanks in part to my being a total derp, I've been feeling like I've been coming across like an idiot to her. So basically I was trying to enter into a conversation with her and this other guy who wasn't part of the group per se, but was a friend of the host of the meet-up. I could only get a few words in and I felt like I was acting like an idiot because they were basically arranging a hook-up later on. Strangely enough it didn't bother me that she was hooking up. In part because I didn't go with any expectations in doing so and also because I am aware of her sex positive attitude. But still, I worry that I somehow may have ruined any chances of getting to know her better in person and who knows what else, even though as of yet I still haven't been blocked from her friends list (however I suspect that she may have erased the post I made on her timeline where I said that I already wished her a happy birthday in person and that I hoped to get to know her more in person soon). All I know is that Mr. Walker (that's what I call my depressive brain) will certainly find a way to bring me down over this.

So did I do anything wrong here? How did I handle it? Do I need to give more details? Do I still have a chance at hooking up, despite months of frustrated plans to do so on both ends and my acting awkward and intruding on a hook-up in progress?

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Post by Enail on Sat Dec 27, 2014 6:24 pm

Sounds pretty good, really. The 'no expectations' thing especially, sounds tough to pull off but probably made things more enjoyable and less uncomfortable all round.  Beyond that, I don't think there's much way to know how things are going with your maybe-hookup-friend other than seeing how things are when you're next in touch with her. Try not to stress too much about the awkwardness!
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Post by Herr R on Sun Dec 28, 2014 4:19 am

Well to be honest, the reason why I was able to go there not expecting anything to happen was for practical reasons, as I had to go to work the next day, so I couldn't stay long. I don't want to imagine if I would of have reacted differently if the situation was different, however. I guess what irks me about the situation was how indifferent she seemed to my presence there. She knew that I was coming and that I was going to arrive late. But as I was only an hour away, the organizer of the meet-up texted me, asking me how long before I got there as she was already talking about going home. But it wasn't just her. It seemed like everybody seemed indifferent to my presence there. I dunno.

I have to warn you guys though that I'm writing this whilst stoned so my current interpretation of the events may be slightly altered at the moment.

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