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    Sun Jul 05, 2015 3:21 pm
    Message by Perlandra - the post I mentioned over on Dr. Nerdlove
    I didn't want to copy the whole thing there, since that kinda smacks of plageriarism. I think you might benefit from actually reading the original, since there were tons of comments from other men saying how helpful they found it, or that they have a hard time with feeling physically attractive even if their partner is supportive. However, some of the pics and other content on the site might be disturbing to you, and afaik you don't have an interest in it.

    https://fetlife.com/users/3240725/posts/3072304
    Body confidence in women is a huge topic...but, here is a message for the men out there.

    To the man who looked in the mirror today, and saw gray: you are beautiful. A silver fox, whose wisdom is sexy. The laugh lines tell me you've seen a lot, and the eyes have the ability to look through my hurt to see my soul. Listening. Playing me like a violin. You are sexy as hell.

    To the men who looked in the mirror today, and saw extra pounds: you are beautiful. The struggles, I feel them too, and you are no less of a man because the six pack is no longer there. The way you walk, shoulders back, and unapologetically you, is hot. The extra padding feels safe, sexy.

    To the men who looked in the mirror today, and saw a slender body lacking the muscles seen in magazines: you are beautiful. Agile, with a facial bone structure to die for. The same way you see my sexy heart through my extra fat, I see your soul without the need for additional padding. You pin me down as if you are he-man, and control my mind...that, is true strength.

    To the men who looked in the mirror today, and noticed more hair, gone: you are beautiful. I'm not looking at your head, I'm looking at your eyes and how they squint at me with mischief, stalking, ready to pounce. There are days I hide behind my hair, but you don't...because you don't need to. You're out there, for the world to see. Badass, bald, and on another level...the innocence of youth, gone. A man.

    To the men who looked in the mirror today, and worried about their penis size: you are beautiful. Too small? Too big? Too long? Too thick? Too crooked? No such thing. Every single of one of you brings something to the table that cannot be contained in the rod between your legs. The way your fingers move with it, the way you command with your voice, stature, and mind. A packaged deal that never disappoints.

    To the men who looked in the mirror today, and saw something they didn't like: you are beautiful. We like you, for being you. Perfection is fucking boring. Your imperfections give you character, and we wish you could see that. You tell us we are beautiful, and that confidence is the sexiest trait...but don't take your own advice. Drink the dose of medicine you prescribe, and rule the world you sexy motherfuckers.

    Smile

    edit: Thank you for reading this, you are beautiful Smile Unfortunately, bad timing - as I'm on vacation with little to no access to 'net - so responding to all of the really surprising and touching messages is practically impossible. I'll be getting back to folks when I return next week.

    Also, note: I realize, this is written from a sub perspective - so the point of view is pitching men in a dominant light. Writing to me, means simply telling the truth - so this is the truth/perspective I know. But, to be clear - much love to all of the men out there who do not identify as dom, as well. This should simply serve as a conversation starter for you, and those in your lives - to point out what makes YOU beautiful and unique. Body confidence is not a destination, it's a journey, and a conversation that should continue to grow, no matter how you identify. Thank you for being amazing humans.
  2. Enail
    Sat Jun 20, 2015 11:39 am
    Message by Enail - Upvoting a comment!
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  4. Enail
    Thu Jun 11, 2015 3:39 pm
    Message by Enail - Upvoting a comment
    Really excellent, thoughtful and constructive way to approach what could be a very difficult thread! http://nerdlounge.canadian-forum.com/t758p60-how-best-to-meet-girls-for-casual-relationships#17596
  5. Enail
    Wed Apr 22, 2015 1:04 pm
    Message by Enail - Upvoting a comment
    It's great to see this kind of empathetic, thoughtful approach to looking at the positions of people even if you disagree with them! http://nerdlounge.canadian-forum.com/t653-social-economic-class#14585
  6. Enail
    Wed Apr 15, 2015 11:36 pm
    Message by Enail - Upvoting a comment!
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    Sat Feb 21, 2015 2:58 pm
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  8. Enail
    Thu Feb 12, 2015 1:29 pm
    Message by Enail - Upvoting a comment
    Clear and useful analysis of what we're talking about and what you find problematic! http://nerdlounge.canadian-forum.com/t441p15-what-is-male-sexuality#9968
  9. Enail
    Thu Jan 22, 2015 1:28 pm
    Message by Enail - Upvoting a comment
  10. Enail
    Sat Jan 10, 2015 10:38 pm
    Message by Enail - Upvoting a comment (the right comment this time!)
  11. Enail
    Fri Oct 24, 2014 8:44 pm
    Message by Enail - Upvoting a comment!
    Yet another nuanced and thoughtful comment! http://nerdlounge.canadian-forum.com/t177-virgin-shaming#2825
  12. Werel
    Sat Oct 18, 2014 9:57 pm
    Message by Werel - Upvote!
    This is really, really great advice.
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