Re: Is putting the need of others before your own really that bad for you? [adv]

by **Robjection** Thu Jul 16, 2015 5:13 pm

So, as things stand, you believe that enforcing boundaries means you get hurt. Is that right?

Under what circumstances would you be willing not to believe that? Even if they're circumstances that only exist in the imagination and are literally impossible.

by Guest Thu Jul 16, 2015 5:52 pm

Robjection wrote:So, as things stand, you believe that enforcing boundaries means you get hurt. Is that right?

Under what circumstances would you be willing not to believe that? Even if they're circumstances that only exist in the imagination and are literally impossible.

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by Perlandra Thu Jul 16, 2015 11:55 pm

It depends on the circumstances, but if it's impacting your physical or mental/emotional health, you need to take care of yourself in order to be capable of being there for other people. I tend to overdo a bit when trying to help others as well, and have to rein it in at times. Balance is good!

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